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Quickie Unique Healthy Snacks

Monday, March 14th, 2011

CRACKER JACK/CHEX MIX
Toss 1 package Cracker Jacks with 1 package Chex Mix and serve. Both Adults and Children will enjoy!

GRANOLA FRUIT TORTE
Pour 1 can of your favorite pie filling into an oven safe pie dish. Cover with layer of granola and bake according to pie filling directions. (May be served hot or chilled and can be served with dollops of plain or vanilla yogurt)

SUPER FRUIT SALAD
1 cup berries or grapes 1 sliced banana 1 chopped apple 1 cup plain yogurt Toss all fruit and yogurt together. Sprinkle sunflower seeds and/or chopped nuts over all and serve.

Listen and Look for Success

Friday, September 17th, 2010

Listen and look in every direction. Sometimes from the most unlikely and unexpected places, you will receive help or inspiration to take the first step into the unknown. As you take the first step forward, the next step may be more visible or you may encounter someone who may offer a suggestion or introduce you to someone that may make the next step so very apparent.
Utilize your own knowledge and creativity ingrained within you, while expecting more to come. Never be discouraged if you must call a halt in your progress due to unexpected roadblocks, emergencies or circumstances. Do what you must, or delegate if you can and sooner or later, you will most likely return to the project with more energy, insight and possible shortcuts with a better solution to reach your goal.

Additional Words of Wisdom: Remember to reach down to help others as you climb the ladder of success and you may find that you will rise even further than you may have ever imagined.

SWAT

Friday, August 13th, 2010

Mark Twain said, “If you don’t read the newspaper, you are unimformed; If you do read the newspaper, you are misinformed.”
I not only read the newspaper, I listen and watch the news on different channels and very often, I am really confused.

Recently, it seems a flight attendant lost control and exited his position in an inappropriate manner. Would SWAT (Stop, Walk and Talk) have been the proper thing to do? What kind of stress or series of events would cause a person to risk not only his own but others’ safety and throw caution to the wind? What might the passenger have said or done, or was it a series of incidents that may have “lit the fuse”?

Is it ever justified to be rude, demanding or insulting toward people you are paid to serve or who are paid to serve you? Should anger management classes be part of the required curriculum in schools and job training? What about the responsibility of every individual to be courteous, patient and kind to each other? What makes some people believe they have a right to demand instant attention without regard to the needs of others? Can we expect consideration and respect if we do not respect everyone else?

Is the Golden Rule outdated? Do we really treat others like we would like to be treated? If not, why not? Perhaps because we are “stressed out”, “burnt out”, not enough sleep. There are certainly enough reasons for feeling tense and frustrated, but there are also methods available to prevent unpleasant outbursts and violent reactions. The simplest is “SWAT” (Stop, Walk and Talk). Remember the “Count to 10″ before responding allows an opportunity to regain some self-control and then, if possible, take a walk to another area, around the building (move away from the situation). In other words, take time to analyze the situation, perhaps get a different perspective. Is it possible that you were the problem, expecting perfection from everyone else, not realizing that you may never be perfect, either? Last, but not least, set up a time to talk……Stop, Walk and Talk

Headstart Your Kids!

Friday, August 13th, 2010

Yes! Yes! Between 3 and 6 years of age, your children are capable of absorbing knowledge like huge sponges. Although their attention span may be short, they can quickly grasp information and are eager to learn. Your job as a parent or caregiver is to provide interesting tools, like crayons, markers, and a picture dictionary, but don’t stop there! If you are observant and aware, you will know when they are ready to begin creating their own dictionary and their own stories.

You may begin by allowing them to trace the words and pictures with colored markers or crayons in their dictionary as they say the words indicated. These suggestions expose them to understanding color, shapes, and understanding words as well as reading readiness skills. Important Note: Keep teaching sessions very brief, remembering to be enthusiastic and cheerful while encouraging even if initial efforts seem more like scribbling. Expecting perfection can delay results and may cause frustration and roadblocks to learning in the future. Pictures and words that may be too difficult to trace can often be touched as you say the word.

After mastering 3 and 4 letter words like cat, dog, pig, cup, shoe, foot, sock, leg, toe, hand, heel, door; you may introduce more “body” words and pictures like finger (show them how to trace their finger, hand, foot for their own original dictionary). Later, add other body words like shoulder, chest, stomach, ankle, even a compound word like fingernail can be introduced and then familiar environmental words like refrigerator, stove, chair, table, oven, stairs, floor, wall, corner, cabinet and then trees. bushes, flowers, etc. Once they realize a word means something real that they can see, feel and say, it really doesn’t matter whether it is a one syllable or 5 syllable word………..There really is no limit to what your child will want to learn if you open the way for them to explore and create.

Marriage Tips/Soul Mates

Sunday, July 11th, 2010

1. Do compliment and praise each other frequently for good deeds, thoughtfulness, cleanliness, helpfulness.
2. Do not expect complete perfection in each other unless you are absolutely perfect, (an impossibility, you know).
3. Respect and admire your differences, recognizing that each has a different role to play in a marriage.
4. Allow your mate to enjoy some “breathing room” in order to prevent boredom and stagnation.
5. Be willing to accept suggestions from each other in order to improve relationship or correct an annoying habit.
6. Enjoy a special date or activity with each other at least once or twice weekly.
7. Be willing to do your share and accept responsibility to achieve a pleasant lifestyle in your home.
8. Be truthful, honest and straightforward so that misunderstanding and mistrust can be avoided.
9. Be aware and respect that each has different needs in regard to sleep, alone time and even romance.
10. Agree to disagree sometimes and be willing to postpone a discussion until both people can be more open and receptive.
11. Last, but not least, practice the Golden Rule…..treat others, like you would like to be treated.

Parenting Children with Special Disabilities

Sunday, July 11th, 2010

Although your child may have limitations, even severe limitations, it is important to realize your child is truly unique and often has hidden skills or abilities that may be invisible at first. Your job as a parent is to observe reactions to different environments (fresh air/sunshine/buildings/elevators/in a moving vehicle), sounds (music/drums/singing/running water) children, pets, colors, and even touch and texture. At first you may not notice little if any reaction, but it is important to continue exposing the child to different environments and situations that may eventually cause some kind of response, even though it may seem insignificant. Eventually you may observe a pleasant awareness or interest, a frightened response or a soothing, comfortable relaxation which may be your first clue.
Never underestimate the Power of Prayer in order to be guided and directed by God and the Angels assigned to you and your child. God may not seem to answer your prayers, because we are often too impatient or our expectations are too defined. Yes, sometimes a miraculous healing can take place, but often God will expect you to do your part in helping your child to develop his/her full potential and you will discover clues from many unlikely sources if you remain open and receptive to His inspiration and guidance. You may even discover a hidden ability or talent within yourself that will help unlock your potential, as well.

Reform the World?

Friday, June 4th, 2010

Peace and Truth are basic elements necessary in order to reform the World. How can any individual change the World?
We begin by reforming ourselves in order to inspire others. Speak the truth quietly and clearly and listen to others who may not have had the opportunity to grow spiritually. Realize that our differences help us to clarify truth. It is important not to limit your love to family and friends as this creates a shell which limits our accomplishments and spiritual growth. You can inspire others through your faith and your actions and when others observe your strength, confidence and joy in knowing that you really can influence others, quietly, yet definitely, they, too can become an example of peace and truth.
When others are worried, upset or angry, instead of reacting likewise, quietly listen and ask questions so that they may become aware that there may be a silver lining in their dilemna. Perhaps they will gain better understanding of others who were in similar situations and then they can be instrumental in helping others to evolve.
I really believe that if everyone in the world practiced the right attitude emphasizing the goodness inside their neighbor, we would no longer have angry mobs demanding and demeaning others who might have opposing viewpoints. Do you think that eventually the different religions will realize and respect that it really doesn’t matter whether you may be Lutheran, Catholic, Protestant or Babtist, as long as you live with love in your heart for family, friends and neighbors and practice the Golden Rule?
Who knows? Do you think that governments all over the world may, at last, see how ridiculous it is to pursue their selfish motives instead of concentrating on what is beneficial to the world, respecting the differences in government and work in cooperation and understanding each others needs?

Simple Tips to Get the Job Done

Monday, May 24th, 2010

Next time you need to climb a lader with tools in your hand, try grabbing a discarded hanging plant basket and use it as a tool caddy. You can easily hood it onto your belt as you climb and then hook it onto a rung of the ladder so it is easily within reach and can be transferred quickly to other rungs as you may need to do to complete the job.

When you need to stand on a slanted surface such as a roof, use a large flat piece of wood with braces/scraps of wood nailed to the bottom to make it level and give yourself solid footing to move back and forth as necessary.

Do you need to paint paper or panel a wall or room and are your kids driving you crazy? Why not give them some water paints so they can paint pictures on the walls, before you paint, paper or panel them. Most often this will be boring within an hour and then let them have the scraps to play with or let them watch a children’s program. Later, you can send them out to the garage or outside to blow bubbles, run around with windmills or pretty scraps of materials cut into ribbons. Hopefully, by the time the children lose interest in those activities, your major job will be completed.

Vehicle Emissions

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

Most of the vehicles we drive emit numerous harmful gases into the environment. It is a cumulative problem more than an individual problem, because so many people all over the world drive their vehicles every day. However, if we all work together we can make an impact and improve the condition of the environment. Once you learn more about what these harmful emissions are, you’ll be more able to make good choices about future car choices and the choices you make while driving that car.

Even when you’re not driving your car, it is still emitting harmful gases into the air. Warm weather produces more gasoline vapors, which escape from the car’s gas tank and engine. When you turn off your engine after driving, it will continue to emit gas vapors as it cools down. When you stop to put gas in your vehicle, the liquid gas releases even more vapors that have built up in your tank, and they get let out into the air. However, your engine doesn’t have to be off for these vapors to escape. It’s just the way that liquid gasoline and heat react with one another and these vapors can come from both your exhaust and your running engine. In addition, volatile organic compounds, also known as hydrocarbons, cause an ozone layer to form on the ground. This can cause eye and breathing problems in humans and is also believed to cause cancer. You can help to reduce harmful vehicle emissions by visiting website rhmfuelsavings.com. The products offered there will help save you gas and reduce emissions.

Grandma’s Tips and Words of Wisdom

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010

Deli Savings:
Invited to a picnic/potluck? Limited time for preparation? Buy a pound or two of salad in the deli, place in a larger bowl and add another vegetable or two or three……..potato salad (add sliced radishes, shredded carrots or sliced egg), broccoli salad (add chopped green, red, or yellow pepper), macaroni salad (add chopped ham, cheese and pickle) Paprika sprinkled on top is a good idea, too.
If you plan to bring a hot dish like baked beans? Buy a large can or jar of baked beans and add dried onion soup mix and a little barbecue sauce to perk it up. You might also add a can of Lima beans and/or butter beans for a more interesting casserole. Mix altogether and bake.
Ask the deli to shave the bologna, ham or whatever meat you decide upon. Standard slicing gives you thicker slices, but fewer pieces per pound.
Want to serve chips or crackers and dip? Instead of buying more expensive dips, simply pick up cottage cheese and add finely chopped onion, green, red, or yellow pepper and bring a jar of stuffed olives (one can be placed on top of the cheese).

HOUSEHOLD TIP: Repair a screen, quickly with nail polish! Make small tears disappear by weaving the remaining screen fibers back together with a small crochet hook and then cement in place with clear nail polish on both sides.

THOUGHT FOR TODAY: Lost Time Is Never Found Again, So Use Your Time Wisely!