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Fascinating Tidbit

Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

Think of yourself and all who may come into your circle of contacts as beautiful snowflakes. (Note, I cm not referring to “flakey”!) As we are aware, each snowflake is of a unique design. We are led to believe that out of the trillions that fall every year, there are no two alike! Then think of the beautiful snowdrifts, winter scenes, icicles and frosted windows, all composed of trillions of snowflakes forming a huge panorama, ever changing, shifting and drifting; yet still remaining a beautiful work of art even as it melts and seems to disappear so that new growth can spring forth at the end of Winter.

When you regard each person as a unique personality having a distinct personality with various talents and sometimes aggravating qualities, we can often tolerate the minor offensiveness while we concentrate more upon the talents and gifts they have to offer, because you are aware of a bigger picture composed of trillions of people all over the world and you will never find any two exact duplicates even though some may be similar. Even twins have some minute characteristic that distinguishes them as individuals.

The next time you become aggravated with yourself or someone else, think of yourself and others as merely snowflakes, joined together in a magnificent panorama of beauty, realizing we can appreciate and enjoy the differences, because one snowflake cannot make a snowdrift!

Parenting Kids

Monday, April 26th, 2010

Talking is better than spanking as a disciplinary technique for most parents, but sometimes it seems debatable. A lot of people aren’t a fan of spanking and most people will admit that it isn’t a pleasant thing. However, talking doesn’t do much good when trying to discipline some children and it is discouraging when you know what you’re saying to them is immediately going in one ear and out the other.

Time outs have become pretty effective behavior motivators for some people, but even more effective can be changing the surroundings so that the bad behavior never has a chance to surface in the first place. This leaves plenty of time for transitions, choosing your battles wisely, and having some distractions ready to thwart any bad behavior cycles. There was a recent article that was written about a parent that recommended ice-cold water in the face to put a stop to a temper tantrum. Most people who responded to a survey on the article thought it was a bad idea, but it is similar to things that have worked for other people who have had a child go into a tantrum. Cold water may be a little extreme, but silly or surprising sounds, words, and phrases from a parent can sometimes get their attention when you need help. Also, icy water in a parents face might be enough to get a child’s attention and put a stop to their bad behavior. Sometimes it helps to look at things from a different perspective.

Welcome to www.lovehelpingpeople.com

Monday, April 19th, 2010

Welcome to my brand new blog.  I think you will find everything you need and more on my new blog.  I welcome all suggestions and comments.  Check this site often as we grow and we will be adding all sorts of wonderful articles for our readers.  I thank you all for visiting and look forward to any and all feedback.  Thank you.